These days, we are already breaking too many traditions. One of those is the rampant relationship label called friends with benefits. For two consenting adults, we cannot see anything wrong with it. However, the process that you have to go through can be fun yet complicated. We are all familiar with this type of status that has gone wrong. Check out the rules to follow when you want this kind of relationship.
1. No falling in love
The most common problem when you are into friends with benefits kind of relationship is that someone falls in love. If you want to have a successful stint, make sure that you will not be too attached. It is important that the both of you knows where you stand in the situation. You should not act like boyfriend and girlfriend just because you are hooking up.
2. Sexual Attraction
The reason why you go through with this kind of set up is for sex. With that being said, it is essential to make sure that the both of you will always have the sexual tension. Dress to seduce and not to impress if you are going out with a special friend so you can always get the benefits.
3. Safe Sex
It is a no brainer. Of course, we always have to practice safe sex. Normal couples do that, what more do you think of people who are just friends with benefits. There is no exclusivity in this kind of situation. It means the both of you can see and hook up with whoever you want. Always use protection to have the guarantee that you will not get STD.
All of us have our free will, and that applies even if we want to have friends with benefits kind of relationship. There is nothing wrong with it, but we just have to make sure that both parties are on the same page.
People suffer from break-ups. Some of us even take it the hard way. We cannot blame them because they are feeling hurt. There are even instances that we seek a new relationship for us to get through the pain we are feeling. We all know that being a rebound is not a good thing. Here are some signs that will tell us if we are currently in a rebound kind of relationship.
1. Your partner just recently had a breakup
It is not a one hundred percent sure sign because we still have to give the benefit of the doubt. It’s just that, more often than not people who are hurt have the tendency to go in a new relationship for all the wrong reasons. It’s because they want to get even.
2. Unlimited ex-call-out
If the person you are in a relationship with tells you about his past, it is a good thing because he or she is open to you. What’s bad, is if they cannot stop themselves from mentioning the name of their ex. You will feel that you are there so he can vent out. If you can notice this, it’s time to talk things out, because he or she might have just indulged in an immature relationship just for the sake of vengeance.
3. Too eager in posting pictures of you on social media
Uploading sweet pictures on the different social media applications can be a nice gesture. However, if it is overdone, he or she may have a different purpose for it. It could be that they are still bitter about what happened to the past relationship and just desperately wants to show everyone that they are okay.
Be cautious if you can notice these three signs. Being a rebound is something that can hurt you. It is better to stay away and just wait for the right time once they have moved on.
Let us all be honest with ourselves ladies. Whenever we see a guy, we always check them out based on their physical appearance. It is normal. It is what we see, so we can’t help but notice. Here’s the question. What are the features that are important to women? Let’s check out the features of the men that the ladies can’t help but look.
I am trying, to be honest in here. Come on ladies. Let us not deny the facts that we look into this feature. For some girls, they would say that size matters, but for the others, it is the performance that can make the difference. Whatever reasons there are, one thing is for sure. They check it out.
Women look for the hair of guy because, in the back of their minds, they are already thinking about their preference. It depends on the girl but some like short hair, long hair, clean cut and any other styles. However, you might not get a good impression if they can see that you are someone who is already losing some hair. There is a difference between a man who shaved all his hair and a man in a baldness process.
I am not generalizing all the girls out there, but some of them easily get turned off if they can see that you haven’t taken good care of your teeth. Sad to say, that it is not just the hygiene. If your teeth are not aligned the way it should be, some women will feel awkward when you talk to them.
These are the top three features in men that are usually noticed first by women. Trust me. Once they look at these three, they already imagine a hundred things on the back of their minds.